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Back from Oslo

08.02.2010 15:30

I landed in Ålesund again last night, and wasn’t home until 11pm. I was so tired, I barely had time to get updated on the latest news and read my e-mail before falling asleep in front of my computer.

The flights were just fine, so was the hotel, although unless they plan to redecorate in the near future, I don’t plan on staying there again. The room was clean (which is the most important thing), but the decoration style (the bathroom in particular) was clearly not from this site of Y2K. The shower water pressure wasn’t up to standards either. But, anyway.

Saturday’s singles party was indeed somewhat of a grand event. Then again, my shy self (and the fact that I arrived about 8pm, an hour after it actually opened) contributed to me sitting alone so-to-speak all of the time. I didn’t get a chance to actually meet and talk to anyone, as all females in the interesting age range (from 20 and expanded upwards to around 35, just for the hell of it) were already in mid-conversation with a guy or two.

Then, at 11pm, the time came for  handing out the matching cards. When we arrived, we got nametags (simple stickers and a permanent marker) with the nickname we use on that dating website (can you guess which one I use?), and our photo was taken and attached to our nickname. The result for me was this (which I scanned in once I got home):

Match card, ages looked up at the dating website: nak (age 30, match 91), Maia82 (age 27, match 91), idita85 (age 24, match 91), ennah80 (age 29, match 91), SøsterMaja (age 26, match 90), liza_elle (age 23, match 90), helligku (age 24, match 89), wingwoman (age 25, match 89), kristy27 (age 27, match 88), ssl (age 28, match 88), Lindav82 (age 27, match 88), Gizly (age 31, match 87), Jenpen (age 25, match 87), Cadi (age 31, match 86), ida1984 (age unknown, match 86), whippet (age 24, match 86), Merrilee (age 29, match 86), Julia82 (age 27, match 86)

The blue background just means that I’m a guy (girls’ cards had a red background). For the ones who hadn’t already hooked up with an interesting person, it was almost a hunt to find anyone on their cards. All the girls on my matching card were good looking to me, but I had trouble finding any of them. In fact, I did cross paths with one in the top row, but she was already walking through a crowd with someone dragging behind her.

So basically, this whole singles event was a fruitless search for me. Bummer. Then again, my expectation for the evening was to gain some field experience for myself. I can’t say it was a big gain, but at least I had a change of surroundings for once.

On a more positive note, while I was already there, I met up my friend and his wife, who both had moved to Oslo late last year (he was offered a better position in the company he worked at, which meant he had to relocate to their office in Oslo, simple as that). We went out for dinner a few hours before I headed off to that party,  and I was invited to dinner at their place on Sunday. It was great to see where he now lives and catch up on other things in life.

Creeping birthdays

01.02.2010 21:03

Birthdays don't creep anymore - Garfield (reprin.... bah, you know the drill)

Yes, my 30th birthday is rapidly approaching (only a couple of weeks away), and I still haven’t made much of my life. This, of course puts some self-applied pressure on me, considering I haven’t achieved as much in life as I had hoped for at this point. I still live in my mother’s basement, I’m still single and unattached, and any sign of offspring is highly dependant on the previous two. I also haven’t reached as high career-wise as I had hoped for. All these thoughts don’t exactly help me keep my spirits up on a daily basis. What is it about decennial birthdays that brings on these kinds of thoughts?

This is the kind of thinking that pushed me to attending a large singles party in Oslo this coming weekend. Earlier this year, I noticed that one of the dating websites (Norwegian only) was hosting a grand event for singles in Oslo on Feb 6. From what I’ve read, this singles party is somewhat of a regular thing, and these usually have 500-1000 attendees, and usually only members of that dating website may attend (others may attend only by invitation from an existing member, something that also has to be authorized by the dating website). Once the party starts, matching cards with photos are handed out, and these include your best matches of the people at this party.

Three weeks ago, I made up my mind to attend this one (for the first time), so I ordered a ticket for myself (the party ain’t free, ya know), booked the flights and hotel (Oslo is a little under an hour flight in each direction), pre-paid for transportation from the airport to the hotel (and back), all completed and confirmed in less than 30 minutes (I had checked up on prices the week before, just to fuel my decision). Thank goodness for Travellink (a site similar to Expedia, both in pricing and concept – I used them for booking the flights from home to Orlando when I went to the US last summer) for making the flight and hotel booking simple and affordable (even for a 4 star hotel like Radisson Blu Scandinavia). Who can pass up such a great offer when it’s even smack dab in the middle of Oslo?

The flight leaves this Friday evening (liftoff at 8:25 pm from Ålesund, landing in Oslo at 9:20 pm), and the return flight is on Sunday evening (liftoff at 9:45 pm, landing in Ålesund 10:40 pm). The bus ride between the airport and the hotel in Oslo takes almost an hour, but at least that bus stops right outside the hotel entrance, so I won’t have far to walk (I’ll find something to pass time on the bus, don’t you worry). Transportation (bus, taxi, parents driving, whatnot) to and from the airport near Ålesund takes 15-20 minutes, so I won’t be home until it’s closer to 11-11:30 pm that Sunday. I deliberately wanted a late flight on Friday so I won’t have to miss work, and I sincerely hope I’ll get to check out late on Sunday (considering I have about 6 hours to kill after the usual checkout time until I head out to the airport). Like I did when I went on vacation alone to Copenhagen and to the USA, I’ve planned most of my trip down to the detail; I’ve pre-paid for and received a tram ticket (which was 25 NOK when pre-purchased on the web or at a convenience store in Oslo, but 40 NOK if paid to the tram driver/conductor) to use when travelling from the hotel to the party (the tram stops right around the corner from my hotel, and also stops under a city block from the party location); I’ve written down tram times (every 20 minutes, it takes 17 minutes from the hotel to the party); I’ve researched taxi companies and prices in Oslo (for the return trip to my hotel), and written down phone numbers for the 5 biggest. I’ve even saved map images around my hotel (walking route from the hotel to the tram stop) and around the party location (walking route from the end tram stop to the party) on my phone. All times (flight, party and return flight) have been plotted into my calendar and synced to my phone, and relevant info has been included in each of those calendar times.

Sometimes, I think I plan too much. Then again, planning is part of what makes it a safe trip, and leaves the remaining time (aside from the flights and the party itself) up for spontinaity.

The party may result in a girlfriend, or it may not. My goal for the party is to at the very least breach a boundary in me to go out and find love more actively (rather than spending time with my family and my introverted self – don’t get me wrong, I love the family time, I just want more than that).

Never having had a proper girlfriend does something to you (and I’m not counting “girlfriends” from kindergarten and grade school). However, I have made my observations on other couples, as well as reading into a lot of articles and forum posts on dating, romance (actual romance, not novel or fantasy romance), relationships, sexuality, conflicts and stuff like that. In short, as with sex, I have taken in all the theory I can get my hands on (which is, btw, a continuing quest for information), but I have yet to take all that theory into practice on a real live person. I now intend to do something more active to rid myself of my relationship virginity (of sorts). How that will actually play out, remains to see. I hope I don’t have to move away from Ålesund for it to happen, though (I just love my hometown in spite of all the cold weather – then again, what happens, happens).

Of course, my sister’s pregnancy and the pending arrival of my first niece in May does make me feel left out in a way. I may be putting too much pressure on myself, but being 3 years older than my sister, I had hoped to be close to 3 years ahead in life than her as well. That obviously didn’t happen. Instead, I’m left with a feeling of not having achieved anything significant in life at the entrance of my first 30 years as a human being.

That’s not to say I’m happy for my sister and her boyfriend, because I am. I just wished I had something like she has. And every time I catch myself in envy over my sister, I also feel ashamed for (in my mind) putting pressure on her (I’m only thinking about that pressure, though, I’m not actually putting any pressure on her).

Then again, I’m also still (relatively) young, and my seeds don’t t have the same expire date as a female’s eggs, but I’ve reached the point in life where I actually look forward to bringing a new life to the world, and perhaps even experience being a grandfather before it’s too late, in addition to having someone to grow old with. How’s that for a comfort level and sense of commitment? And that’s even before having someone to share it with!

I hope life still has something special in store for me, and I’m sure it does. It just isn’t happening soon enough!

Now, how’s that for a rant about life?

Don’t be evil?

01.02.2010 17:21

According to Wired, Steve Jobs recently lashed out against Google on their self-imposed mantra of “Don’t be evil” (along with critizism against other big companies). Yeah, like he’s one to talk.

If you look closer at the history of Apple’s products over the recent decade, Apple is a smidge more evil than Google. They don’t allow others to run their software, they’ve tried restricting their customers to a single platform (not just with music, but with their software and devices as well), they don’t allow for competing products on their platforms (and not just from small-time developers), they’ve tried silencing third party developers from discussing matters relating to Apple with others, they try to run the blame game on their customers (for product problems, they’ve been accused of stealing (not only user interface designs) and they even twist the truth in media just to generate over-hype about their coming products, just to name a few things.

This type of corporate culture is one of the reasons I don’t own any Apple products. Even though their computer products are slightly more enhanced for media production, these computers are just too restricted (software-wise) and high-priced for me to bother. As for the other portable devices (iPod, iPhone, and now, the iPad), the above-mentioned corporate culture and behavior is the main reason for not choosing Apple products on my part.

The iPod and iPhone may have been somewhat superior products when they were launched, but even back then, I could see several flaws and things missing with the iPhone in particular. Besides, when their competition launched their “similar” products under a year later to compete with the iPhone, these were already vastly superior to the iPod and iPhone in features, hardware, software and freedom. Still, Apple seems to have a “fanboy” following that can almost be compared to a semi-religious sect, with Steve Jobs as their almighty savior (something that has, thankfully, been pariodied on more than one occasion).

Yet, Steve Jobs dares to criticize Google for having evil traits, contrary to their own slogan. That may just be a case of the pot calling the kettle black – he should probably take a closer look at his own organization first.

Music and movie piracy

29.01.2010 16:35

Earlier this week, it became clear that RIAA (Recording Industry Association of America) wants to settle in the lawsuit against Jammie Thomas for $25,000. This is after the judge in that lawsuit had decreased the original $2 million “fine” (actually closer to $1.92) to $54,000 only a few days before. Not surprisingly, Thomas declined because they wanted her to accept it “without me knowing what I’m agreeing to”.

I would agree with Thomas here. I’d fight the ridiculously high demand to my very last breath. Not because I don’t want to pay for the music I have, but because I disagree with the methods these trade organizations (RIAA, IFPI, BSA and MPAA being the major offenders here) are using to battle content piracy (“content” being music, films, software and whatnot — I’m counting games under the “software” umbrella here, btw).

I admit, I download music, films and TV shows illegally on a semi-regular basis. But, I buy a lot of it legally as well.

Once the most recent episode of Heroes or CSI (just to mention a few) hit the pirate networks after being aired in the U.S. a few hours earlier, I download it (or, at the very least, later that same week, depending on when I remember to check in). I don’t want to wait until the one of the local TV networks decide to air it, mainly because they are constantly one or two seasons behind the U.S. broadcasts. And some of those TV shows are even available on the pirate networks in both standard definition and HD. For the sake of simplicity (and storage space), though, I usually go for the standard definition ones. That’s not to say I’m not willing to pay for it. Heck, I’d gladly pay a monthly subscription fee if I could get all of my favorite TV shows legally, and the second they are available from the respective production companies. The only services I’ve heard/read that do this, are only available to customers inside the U.S., which is a shame to me, as a customer in Norway. Sure, I can use a proxy service to mask my IP address as if I was in the U.S., but why go through all that trouble, when I can get the same episode from a pirate network for “free” – and keep the episode afterwards?

I’ve pirated a few movies as well. Whenever I’m very uncertain about whether the movie is worth the DVD price and/or shelf space, I usually download it from a pirate network first. If the movie was bad or disappointing, I’d leave it at that. If the movie was great or absolutely worth my money, I later go out and buy it on DVD. The latter has happened to me on several occasions; Chicken Little, Cloverfield, Jumper (the latter two being surprisingly underrated), just to mention a few.

I’ve also bought (or gotten as a present from my wishlist) Heroes (season 1 and 2), CSI (seasons 1 through 7) and Stargate SG-1 (all 10 seasons and the two movies following the series) on DVD as a result of downloading these illegally first.

The same goes for my music collection. I have roughly 30-40 music CDs (maybe even up to 50, I don’t have the exact count), but close to 60-70 GB of music on MP3 (roughly 13-14,000 songs), all of various quality (128-320 kbps). I don’t add to my collection as frequently as I did before, but I still get new music, roughly a half of a CD album’s worth once or twice a month. Some I get from pirate websites, of the AllofMP3 type, some I get from genuine online music stores (DRM-free).

The current count of DVD units (TV series seasons and movies) at the time of this post was close to 940, all purchased or gifted 100% legally, so in a way, I consider myself a good customer of the movie and TV industry. Yet, when I pop a DVD into my DVD player, I feel intruded upon whenever the usual video regarding piracy comes up (the one with “You wouldn’t steal a car…” etc). I can’t skip it (“next” or “menu” on my DVD remote), even though I’ve literally seen it thousands of times before. I feel like I’m being stamped as a criminal even though I’ve bought the movie myself. Besides, those who pirate this DVD is not likely to include that short video when they distribute it anyway. It has no purpose.

The only positive anti-piracy campaign I’ve seen, was a pamphlet included inside the cover of one of the DVDs I bought from Play.com (UK-based, which means region 2 encoded DVDs, suitable for all of Europe – for you Americans, they also have an American division for those region 1 DVDs). I don’t remember the exact words on this pamphlet, but it basically said that by buying this film legally, I support the creators and producers of the film, and encourage them to make more. Now, that’s the type of spirit I want to see.

No matter what these trade organizations do, they won’t be able to shut down piracy completely. If you shut down services like The Pirate Bay, a few weeks up to a month later, a new website just like it will pop up (either from the same creators or from some other part of the world) and become the most popular piracy website instead.

And yes, there are people who have the ideal of “everything should be free”, even if that applies to software, music, movies, TV shows or other performing arts.

I’m not saying they should just give up, I’m saying they need to reconsider their current business and earning model. They count each instance of illegally copying a song or movie file as a lost sale due to piracy. Trouble is, what if that person who illegally downloaded wasn’t going to buy that song or movie if he/she could afford it? What if that person wasn’t willing to spend money on something he/she had never heard of or seen before, or on something that has gotten very mixed reviews? A file is just a file, much like a piece of paper.

They treat each of these “lost sales” as a physical copy, even though they are not. Comparing movie piracy (through downloads) to the theft of a car is like comparing Apple and Orange. It just doesn’t work that way. Movie piracy is more like borrowing a book at the local library, scanning every page of that book into your computer, and then returning the book afterwards. Those scans are then given away to anyone who asks for it. The original physical copy is still intact as ever, but did the publishing company and/or author actually lose sales over it?

When portraying their current and potential customers as potential criminals (as they do with the today’s continuing campaigns), they are only going to deter the most skittish of pirates, while the piracy bigwigs won’t even flinch by these campaigns. Instead, they should rather promote the positive effects of paying for movies, music and software — like helping artists, producers, designers (and all others involved in the production process) to continue their work and make more.

Second, instead of fighting sites like AllofMP3 and The Pirate Bay with lawsuits and sanctions, they should rather look into why they are popular and see the business opportunities in the distribution and pricing models (of the type used in AllofMP3) used.

Also, when I’ve tried to watch a certain music video or try to access certain types of music/video content (non-porn, for those who try to insinuate something), I’ve been countered with the message that my country is not allowed to see that content. There are no real country borders on the Internet, and the rights owners should realize this by now. When there are things I want to access, but can’t do it legally only because of where I live (considering the content itself is not against any laws or regulations in my country), I’m more likely to obtain the same content illegally.

Also of note: first of all, the fines and outcomes of those close-to-frivolous lawsuits (by my standards) are not going to the actual artists whose rights have been stepped on. They more or less line the pockets of the executives and the executive branch of the industry. The artists and composers down the line are not compensated, as I’ve understood it.

Second, take a look at some of the targets of these lawsuits and/or fining campaigns (the latter being offering the target to settle the case for a single fine rather than going to court); single mothers, young students, grandmothers, children, computer novices and even dead people. This seems more like hunting for humpback whales with a BB gun and a butterfly net (terrible analogy, I know, but I’m just trying to project an image of futility here — btw, the bigwig pirates would be the “humpback whales” in this particular analogy).

There, I just had to get it off my chest.

NRK må jekke seg ned…

20.01.2010 20:49

I går ble det da klart at Jostein Pedersen ikke lenger får jobbe i NRK som følge av kritikken han rettet mot Per Sundnesbloggen sin rett før helgen. NRK liker visst ikke at en av deres egne ansatte sier sine meninger om andre medansatte dersom disse meningene skulle ha et lite dryss av negativitet over seg.

Det begynte visst med innlegget til Jostein Pedersen på sin egen blogg der han kritiserte Per Sundnes for å gjøre en dårlig jobb (der han også påpekte noen eksempler på hva som var dårlig), og ikke minst NRK for et dårlig valg av programleder. VG valgte dagen etter å si at Pedersen gikk “i strupen” på Sundnes basert på det jeg heller vil kalle konstruktiv kritikk. Og nå vil altså NRK avslutte alt samarbeid med Pedersen basert på dette.

Personlig er jeg helt enig i Jostein Pedersens kritikk. Per Sundnes gjør en dårlig jobb. Jeg synes han har en stiv og uentusiastisk fremferd, og mangler attpåtil intervjuteknikk. Det er også et poeng å holde mikrofonen mot intervjuobjektet ditt når du spør et spørsmål –  noe jeg vil anse som en nybegynnerfeil, og ikke fra noen som tilsynelatende skal ha flere års erfaring i NRK. Sundnes gir også et inntrykk av å være uinteressert i å være i søkelyset, og jeg snakker ikke om dialekten hans – for all del, dialekten ser faktisk ut til å være noe av det mer positive trekket hans. Det virker bare på meg som om at det eneste kriteriet NRK har satt for valget av Sundnes som MGP-personlighet er fordi han kanskje passer inn i den stereotypiske feminine homsefaktoren av MGP (på samme måte som sunnmøringer som meg selv skal være stereotypisk griske). Det kan godt hende han gjør gode ting for å øke interessen for MGP i popmiljøet, men han passer rett og slett ikke som programleder. Forresten passer han ikke noe særlig som journalist heller, sånn sett.

Jeg håper NRK tar til vettet. De må da tåle at sine TV-personligheter får kritikk, selv om de “betyr mye for NRK” (ifølge Grethe Gynnild Johnsen, direktør i distriktsdivisjonen i NRK). Hun sier også at hun er “særdeles lite raus overfor kolleger som går til slike angrep på sine kolleger i det offentlige rom”, og at “dette burde han tatt på kammerset”. Hvilket kammers? Når du er blitt en såpass perifer samarbeidsperson i NRK som Pedersen, har du ikke akkurat lett omgangskrets med en “sentral” person som Per Sundnes. Det må da kunne gå an å si sin mening om perifere kollegers ytelse i programmer uten å måtte gå gjennom en eller annen form for system internt først. Jostein Pedersen er tross alt ikke lenger en del av NRKs MGP-tilbud.

Slik som NRK har håndtert saken, skulle man nesten tro at Sundnes var selveste Jesus i NRK-organisasjonen. Eller i det minste en av de store profetene.

Hva blir det neste? At f.eks. Ingerid Stenvold (NRK Sport, Lydverket, Dagsrevyen) blir tatt av luften hvis hun sier en liten negativ ting om Fredrik Skavlans intervjuteknikk?  (Ikke at det faktisk er noe å kritisere akkurat der, jeg måtte bare ha et helt vilt og usannsynlig eksempel å komme med.)

NRK må skjerpe seg og følge med i tiden. Nå når alle og enhver kan skaffe seg en blogg (som på VG Blogg) eller mikroblogg (som Twitter), vil det også si at det blir større tilgang på meninger. Hvis noen i deres egen organisasjon velger å bruke det offentlige forum til å ytre sine meninger, må de også være villig til å gi et svar på kritikken i det samme offentlige forum, fremfor å behandle det som en negativ personalsak internt. Det handler om å bli litt mer fleksibel i kommunikasjonsmetodene sine.

Og det var alt jeg hadde å si om den saken i denne omgangen. (Med mindre NRK tabber seg ut på denne måten igjen.)

Opplysningen ute på tur?

20.01.2010 16:40

Det er ikke første gang Opplysningen 1881 er ute på tur når det gjelder kritikk i media. Sist ut er dagens omtale der ansatte avslører at de føler seg presset til å hale ut tiden (som jeg tror også kom frem i gårsdagens VG på papir, om jeg husker forsiden riktig). Jeg tror nok at dette kommer frem i forbrukertesten som ble gjort i fjor. Ikke rart at tjenester som 1888 direkte sammenlikner seg med 1881 i sine reklamer (og jeg synes egentlig at praksisen med å sammenlikne sitt eget produkt med en navngitt konkurrent er en uting).

Ledelsen Opplysningen 1881  prøver også å skyve vekk denne anklagen ved å si at de ikke haler ut tiden. Samtidig erkjenner konserndirektøren at de har som mål at kundebehandleren skal tjene inn kr 19,30 per samtale. Problemet er da at en kundebehandler faktisk må hale ut tiden for å kunne oppnå dette beløpet.

La oss ta noen eksempler. I eksemplene mine her regner jeg med at du betaler for den faktiske tiden (inndelt i sekunder, rundet opp til nærmeste sekund).

Fra mobil (kilde: Telenor Mobil) koster det 6,30 i oppstart og 19,50 per minutt for kontantkunder (og Super) og 17,60 for de fleste andre kunder (uansett tid på døgnet). For å nå målet, må da en samtale med kontantkortkunde vare i 40 sekunder, og en samtale med en vanlig mobilkunde må vare i 45 sekunder.

Fra fasttelefon (kilde: Telenor Privat) koster det 6,22 i oppstart og 17,34 per minutt (uten spesialabonnement). Det vil da si at en samtale må vare i 46 sekunder for å nå målet.

Dette er da uten tilleggstjenesten Sett Over.

Hvis jeg selv sitter på en PC og søker opp et navn på 1881.no,  har jeg regnet ut at jeg bruker i gjennomsnitt maks 20 sekunder på å gå til forsiden hos 1881.no, skrive inn et navn, vente til søkeresultatene kommer opp og lese opp høyt første søkeresultat til noen i samme rom som meg. Gjentar jeg nummeret, bruker jeg kanskje maks 5 sekunder ekstra om jeg leser det opp sakte.

I samme artikkel der avsløringen kom, oppgis det at til tross for kritikk og stadige dårlig utfall i forbrukertester, tar de imot 1 samtale per sekund hele døgnet, hele året.

Hvis de hadde ytt litt ekstra service ved at kunden (innringeren) får den han/hun ønsker på kortest mulig tid (og dermed til lavest mulig pris), ville det øke sjansen for mersalg. Jeg vil tro at et større antall innkommende samtaler gir større inntjening (når man tenker på oppstartsprisen). Dermed må de slutte å tenke på hvor mye de kan klare å tyne ut av hver kunde de har, og heller sette fokus på å yte bedre service.

Og med tanke på at Opplysningen 1881 faktisk har den dyreste minuttprisen av alle som tilbyr opplysningstjenester, og i tillegg bruker lengst tid av dem alle, har de tross alt ikke råd til å miste de kundene som fortsatt velger å ringe 1881.

Selv bruker jeg 1881.no på web og 1881-applikasjonen til min mobil, ettersom jeg føler at 1881 faktisk gir best resultat. Prisen på 30 kr per måned for mobilapplikasjonen er da billigere enn 2 samtaler til 1881 i samme tidsrom, og det blir da småpenger i forhold. Jeg ringer aldri til opplysningstjenester lenger, rett og slett fordi det koster for mye, og her har 1881 mye å ta igjen, bare på å kutte ned på samtaletiden.

Tilsvarende har jeg sett at Dagbladets papiravis stadig øker i løssalgpris, til tross for at de stadig får færre lesere. Om jeg husker riktig, er Dagbladet faktisk dyrere enn VGs papiravis. Hvorfor må de som har mindre kundegrunnlag stadig prøve å tyne mer ut av sine kunder? Jeg anser det som dårlig forretningsskikk og kundeservice.

Nei, til Opplysningen 1881, Dagbladet, og andre bedrifter: Skjerp dere!

In the words of our dessert generation…

07.01.2010 15:46

I came across this little ‘toon, and saw it fitting for today’s growing up generation:

Speed Bump, reprinted without any permission whatsoever (as usual)

I mean, the new generation (children of today, well below age 10) seems to be able to whine and pout to get their way. I’ve seen too many examples of fresh mothers and fathers being too focused on keeping their children happy all the time, and being their “best buddies” without setting proper focus on boundaries. A child’s moral boundaries are set while growing up – it’s not something that comes automagically. I fear this dessert generation is also bound to be quite ego-centric as they grow up, considering — as part of the parent’s desire to be “best buddies” — they get everything they want; toys, books, DVDs, music, gadgets, you name it. Sometimes even without asking for it (a trait my mother noticed particularily when she visited one of my cousins for her children’s birthdays a few weeks before Xmas).

My mother works with children (in school, usually with ages around 6-10), and so does my sister (in kindergarten, usually with ages up to 4-5), and both notice these traits in some of the children. My mother in particular was the one who pointed out the thing about “best buddies”, and I do get to hear stories like these at the dinner table when she sums up her day at work.

Fair enough, most kids of today grow up in “normal” environments, but to me it seems the ego-sentric  portion of the child population is growing. I even see small tendencies of this in my youngest sister (who’s actually turning 12 this Monday), but I sincerely hope she’ll grow out of it in the next few years.

New Year, New Times?

04.01.2010 16:35

Happy New Year 2010!

I finally gave up on waiting for myself writing my own content management system only a few days before New Year’s Eve, and decided to instead go for something already out there. After much thought, I went for WordPress, and started the work of converting my existing design into a WordPress template. It took me a few days to do that, plus transferring all my previous posts, images and comments to the new site. Also, the new site is now hosting on one of my virtual servers, located in London (UK). Why London? I just hadn’t started using that particular server just yet, and this would be a great way to make use of it. Also, that server is hosted on a fast connection when seen from both sides of the Atlantic puddle.

And why the change of blogging system at all? I was simply getting tired of hand coding all my posts, especially around times where there would be a lot of pictures (ie. my vacation posts). Every little bit of formatting (bold, italics, images, whatever) needed their own little bit of HTML code I had to insert. Although I’m quite knowledgeable in HTML, it’s tiring not being able to think solely on my writing. And that’s just one of those “small” things that made blog posts far from eachother in time. From now on, I can focus on what to say, rather than how to format it. Maybe that will also mean I will post more often. I have my fingers crossed, at least.

I’ve also kept my Norwegian-only posts, and placed them in a category of their own. The title for my Norwegian-only posts will now also have the Norwegian flag next to them, just so you can filter them out (visually) whenever they appear.

They usually won’t, though, unless the subject of the posts is only intended for people in Norway.

If you’re wondering about the colorful image at the beginning of my post, I just felt I had to start the new year with fresh images of me, and in a slightly humorous way. That’s me making faces to my camera on a tripod taking 10 snaps at a time on a self-timer. Fun stuff. ;-) Then again, after snapping 50 shots of myself,  I had to pick a small selection of these to process and tweak, just to show off. Not nearly enough of those snaps were good enough, though, either quality-wise or regarding the face I was making.

As for the last three months, life goes on as normal, except:

I’ve learned that I’m going to be an uncle. :-D My sister Lene is already half-way, expecting delivery in early May, and one of the latest exams revealed that it’s going to be a baby girl. We’re all excited, to say the least. The whole ordeal also serves as a strong reminder to myself that I’m no further on my own path in life. I mean, I turn 30 in a little over a month from now, and I’m still single. I can almost feel the biological clock ticking (in the sense that I’m emotionally ready for both commitment as well as family expansions). My sister’s little upcoming nugget does overshadow those slightly-depressing thoughts, at least.

Back in August,  my cousin and his wife had a son of their own, named Alexander, and he was baptised on the third day of Xmas, unfortunately landing on their own 1-year wedding anniversary.

And Xmas has  just passed, and this year’s catch included some things I had on my wishlist, a few things I should’ve had on my wishlist, and a few things I hadn’t wished for at all, but were still appreciated. I’ll provide details if someone asks.

I noticed Barrack Obama won the 2009 Nobel Peace Prize. Personally, I thought it was nice, even though his peace efforts up to that point have been more in words, rather than actions. He hasn’t come through on a lot of things this past year, but then again, he has accomplished some good things in this short time, which I can hardly say about his predecessor. Obama has so far minimized the long term damage from the economic recession in the U.S., and has come through on the American health care reform (that’s good). Even though he announced he was sending additional troops to Afghanistan between the Peace Prize was announced and he actually received it (that’s bad), he did seem to make long term plans for withdrawal (that’s good). We’ll see what happens. At least he seems enthusiastic about going for diplomacy first, insteading of “shoot first, ask questions using any means necessary later” (which seemed to be the strategy of “Dubya”).

Let’s just hope for a prosperous new year for everyone and be done with it.

:-)

ABC’s of ME

17.09.2009 15:29

Jacob Dicke (one of the people I met at the Blue Man Group fanmeet in Orlando this summer) tagged me with this on Facebook, so I (almost) had to make this list.

Then again, the introduction said I “had” to tag an additional 25 people while posting this (including the person who originally tagged you), and since I’m very much against chain letters and variations thereof, I’m reluctant to do just that.

But anyway, here are the ABC’s of me:

  • A – Age: 29 (at the moment)
  • B – Bed size: Junior king, or whatever it’s called (just wide enough to fit my wide ass)
  • C – Chore you hate: Vacuuming (but it has to be done)
  • D – Dog’s names: No dogs or pets of any kind (unless you count the occasional dust bunny)
  • E – Essential start your day item: Daily cartoons and/or jokes
  • F – Favorite color: Blue
  • G – Gold or Silver: Gold
  • H – Height: 171 cm (that’s roughly 5′ 7½” to those who are stuck with the “imperial” system)
  • I – Instruments you play: None at the moment, but I did learn how to play recorder, piano and cello back in the day
  • J – Job title: System Administrator
  • K – Kid(s): None (yet)
  • L – Living arrangements: Large basement room at my mom’s house
  • M – Mother’s name: Marianne
  • N – Nicknames: NeonNero (chosen) and Kimmen (from others)
  • O – Overnight hospital stay other than birth: Once during elementary school, I was admitted for monitoring after an accidental (and small) overdose on my asthma medication
  • P – Pet Peeves: Spelling and/or grammatical errors on commercial products and big signs. I mean, COME ON!
  • Q – Quote from a movie: The Terminator: I’ll be back.
  • R – Right or left handed: Right handed
  • S – Siblings: Two younger sisters – one 3 years and 1 month apart (same mother and father), and one 17 years and 11 months apart (only the same father)
  • T – Time you wake up: Anywhere between 9am and 11am, usually, unless I need to get up earlier for some reason
  • U – Underwear bought most during Clinton administration: I was in my mid-teens, so I basically didn’t care too much about what type of underwear to use – but I think I used
  • V – Vegetable you dislike: Broccoli (something about the texture that makes me twitch)
  • W – Ways/Reasons you run late: Absent-mindedness, mostly
  • X – X-rays you’ve had: Head and hand (when I was checked for any stunted growth)
  • Y – Yummy food you make: Pizza! From scratch!
  • Z – Zoo favorite: Giraffe

Home again

02.09.2009 18:32

As you might’ve guessed by now, I came home a little over a month ago. I was only going to stay in Orlando for one week, so I left Orlando on Monday afternoon (July 27, local time), and arrived in Ålesund at around 2pm the following day. And that’s just with 2 flights, each with an hour or so of waiting time between flights.

The American trip was fun, and I’m definitely going back there some day. Both Las Vegas and Orlando were lots of fun, and I felt just one week at each location was maybe a few days or up to a week too short for everything I wanted to experience. Like I said, I’m definitely going back. Hopefully next year, if my economy allows it (maybe with a few days extra at each location, and perhaps even an extra location or two added, if possible). I’ll have to check back with my economy around springtime, I suppose.

Oh, and pictures from my vacation is up on Flickr. Just go to the Summer Vacation 2009 set to see all photos, or you can go see the photo sets just from Las Vegas, just from Orlando or even just from the Blue Man Group fan meet I attended in Orlando. In the vacation photos from Orlando, I’ve also included 9 of the photos taken by Disney’s PhotoPass service (when I visited the Walt Disney World parks), two videos from the Blue Man Group sound check (which we attended as part of the fan meet), and one video of a lightning storm in the distance the night before the fan meet (a smaller group of us fans was hanging out for a few hours on the night before). The lightning storm was nothing like anything I’ve seen before. We only get a few lightnings a year where I live, and then it’s only between sky and the ground, and always followed by thunder. Seeing lightning just strike the sky like that was an extraordinary sight, to say the least.

Speaking of that, I felt I connected mostly with Joe and his fiancé Alex, their close friends Jacob and his wife Melissa, and Mike. We all hang out the night before the fan meet (we were the entire “smaller group of fans” I mentioned earlier), and had a few drinks and a late snack. Just basic hanging out, more or less. No biggie.

When I landed in Oslo after a long flight from Philadelphia, though, I woke up with something that felt like a cold. Who knew that would last for a week or two? Maybe it was this “swine flu” thing, maybe it wasn’t. As a guy of average health, I don’t really bother to buy into the panic around swine flu created by the mass media. Frankly, those who have died or will die from swine flu, are also about the same people who would’ve died from the common flu. Period. There’s no need for the panic. The same goes for avian flu, too. Those who did contract it, basically lived in bird feces 24/7, and those who died from it, wouldn’t have survived the common flu, either. That’s my perception of the demographics on it, anyway, and if my memory serves me correctly, that’s close to the perception from health administration organizations around the world (CDC, WHO, etc) as well.

To be honest, I don’t think the demographics surrounding the flu deaths are publicized and emphasized enough in the mass media (or media in general). You’d almost think the media want a widespread panic regarding trivial things. I mean, look back at the major pandemics “predicted” by the media over the last decade or so. How many of these has actually come true? I think all of these need to do their research properly and perhaps re-read the story of The Boy Who Cried Wolf.

So there.

And if you’ve seen my Flickr photostream, you might’ve noticed the wall of DVDs and my new working area. I had the three dark gray towers seen in the photo from before, and I bought another 10 towers (the BENNO CD tower shelf from IKEA, to be exact), each able to hold 88 DVDs. By my calculations, I now have room for 1144 regular-sized DVDs, and considering my current DVD collection now counts a little over 880 DVDs (and Blu-ray discs) of various sizes, I’m going to need it. Actually, the picture shows all my DVDs aside from a few TV show season boxes I temporarily had on another shelf. As you can see, I started filling the shelves from the right end of the wall, as I’ve yet to alphabetize them, and that’s not yet a priority. I know where most of the ones I like are, anyway (or at least the general area). The media shelf below that TV is also in the BENNO series, matching the design of the others, which will contain 1 Blu-ray player, 1 DVD player (which is also the surround sound base unit), 1 digital satellite tuner and 1 PlayStation2 (which I’ve had stored in a box for a couple of years now). Nothing is hooked up just yet, as the general area is still a bit of a mess. I’m a slow tidyer, but I know what I want it to look like.

My new working area doesn’t really need any explanation, though (the picture text really says it all).

I’ve gotten back on track with my dental treatments, and it looks like it’s going to take a while (as well as a chunk of my parents’ bank account, since they promised to cover the costs of getting my teeth up to good standard).

Oh, and to sum up my Blue Man Group attendance, I now have attended 1 rock concert (last October in Copenhagen, Denmark), 3 shows in Las Vegas (their flagship show, so to speak), and 2 shows in Orlando (one of their “minor” shows), and I still haven’t gotten enough of them! I noticed that they’re now going on a tour with the theatrical show around North America starting in late 2010, so maybe there’s a minor glimmer of hope that they’ll do the same across Europe, too. I know they already have a steady show in Berlin, but I know that show is entirely in German, which I think isn’t quite the same. But don’t think that’s going to stop me from seeing it if I ever pass through Berlin, though.